Is This the One?

Buzz of the Day

We've all been single and on the dating scene. At least somewhat. As you get older you need to figure out if this person has potential to be "the one" or not, so you can stop wasting your time if they don't have that potential. Some of us feel like we can make a not so great situation work. And we waste time trying to turn someone into something they're not, and don't want to be. At the same time we're trying to convince ourselves that this is what we want to do. But most of the time, that's not the case. Granted, there's always some work that needs to be done but the question is: How much work is too much?

Why Do We Stay - Many of us stay for comfort. We stay for the safeness of routine, even if that routine ain't the best. This same example can be said for the job that we work at. Some positions are stepping stones (i.e., a summer fling) and some can be a true career move (i.e., wifey material). Evaluate your situation and make that determination. Not when you've had a tough day at work or a fight with your partner. Assess your situation with a clear mind and then act accordingly once you know what's truly in front of you. You owe it to you and your pursuit of happiness.

I appreciate the new readers. If you guys keep reading, I'll keep writing. Thanks for the love.