Can It Be It Was All So Simple Then?

#BaxtersBuzz

I've been listening to a lot of music from the 1990's this week. And it's appropriate for a #ThrowbackThursday blog post. The hip hop can be so intense, it's not always a good combination with the stresses of the day. "Keeping it real' can go very wrong, very quickly!

Can It Be That It Was All So Simple Then - The music relaxes me and takes me back to a time where things were much more simple. I think many of the songs that I love hold up over time, but some of them don't LOL. I think the thing they do best is remind us of days gone by. Things feel so much more impersonal. We don't know our neighbors' names. We don't know our children's friends or their parents. We're just in our box, and couldn't care less about what else is going on. 

Howdy, Neighbor - Yesterday it snowed and my neighbor came by to snow-blow my walkway (God bless him!). I was so relieved because I was busy shoveling and trying to get cars cleaned off for us to go to work. He lives next door and although it was only a few more feet for him to help me out, I was just really appreciative of the act itself. We keep an eye on his house if he's headed out of town and he does that same for us. That type of behavior is sort of a throwback in itself! 

Cynics and Critics - Life can make you cynical, then you start wondering what everyone's angle is. I work in corporate America and there are numerous folks who are only looking at what they can get from you. And if they can't get anything from you, some won't even acknowledge your existence. I'm also in the "people business". How many customers call you just to tell you you're awesome? They call when they need something like most consumers do! Same can be said for many friends and family members as well. No judgment, just facts. 

Ain't Nothing Like The Old School - How does one bring an old school approach to this "new" school? Please and thank you. Yes ma'am, no sir. People always compliment my wife and I on how well mannered my child is and although I truly appreciate it, I hate that it's not the norm. It wasn't the norm when  my mom got those same compliments in the early 80's. 

Social Media - I was in the bank earlier this week and an older woman came in and she immediately said, "Hello everyone," and it was only myself and an older gentleman who responded to her. This lobby had about 10 people in it. It was like no one had ever taught them to say hello when they walked into a room. And the cell phones don't help. I heard someone call Facebook and Twitter and those applications "anti social" media. We put more emphasis on posting what we're doing on Facebook  than what we are actually doing! Turn those phones off occasionally. We buy children these toys that WE'RE impressed by..... and they play with the box! Red wagons have been selling for over 100 years. That's right, a simple red wagon.

Memories, Like The Corners of My Mind - Allow your mind to breath. Enjoy those people who are around you. We all seem to be consumed with so much insignificance and then tell people who are close to us,  "Sorry I haven't called. I've been so busy". We'll share a tweet or a post on IG, but won't pick up the phone or even text to say, "You've been on my mind". Believe me, I am guilty of it too but I'm trying to improve. Putting my phone down when I'm playing with my daughter, because there's no status update that overrules my status as a dad. Doing the same for my interactions with my wife. We put so many things that CAN WAIT over things that should never have to. 

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